Our families have a vibratory pattern. We are connected genetically through our parents, to 4 grandparents and 8 great-grandparents. Each of these individuals brings unique qualities, which come together and help us live our lives fully and completely.
The mother has a soft & nurturing role. She is the physical doorway to the material world and remains the avenue thru which the child experiences a connection to their spiritual and emotional source. Her role is to continually hold that door open for the child, by constantly expressing unconditional love. If a child feels cut off from the mother it creates a deep sense of separation and abandonment.
The father’s role is to help the child express their inner light thru their body and their mind. He is the avenue thru which the child experiences the excitement of achieving a goal. His role is to help the child develop a sense of self confidence. If a child is constantly criticised by the father it represses their natural enthusiasm to truly succeed.
Grand parents have the capacity to connect with the hearts and souls of their grand children in a way that their parents are unable. The nature of the love between grandparent & grandchild is that of being acknowledged, revered and nurtured.
The union of hearts between a child and a grandparent affects parts within the child that no one else can reach. Of all the love in a child’s life it is the love of a grandparent that that provides the greatest unseen potential. Children love attention and have a great need to be touched. Especially under the age of two a child can never be touched or kissed too much.
There are 3 primary methods that a grandparent can use to access the inner nature of a child. 
1 Prayer
2 Consciousness
3 Stories
As the voice of a parent or grandparent tells a story, it delivers a image into the subconscious symbolic part of a child’s mind. Fear can be represented as an evil witch and when the witch dies the message to the child’s mind, is to release the fear associated with its symbolism.
If a child is born into a yang position they will connect firstly to the grandparents on the fathers yang side. If born into a yin position they will connect first with the mother’s side.
Each child will have a heart grandparent, someone who they most connect. However to access the gifts of all 12 grand & great grandparents we must connect to the vibration that grandparent represents, not the actual person. We are talking about the vibratory slot that they hold for us. Rayid uses nature symbols and has wealth of poetic ways to express the gifts that each of these genetic positions bestow on all of us. As the feminine and masculine energy rises and falls within us, a disturbance in this natural flow can create disharmony and illness.
By visualising the symbol associated with the specific grandparent we can access the unique gifts they bestow on us and recreate internal harmony. The more conscious we become as people, the more lights we turn on for our great grandchildren.